If you are starting to feel certain uncomfortable feelings at this point in your life and you aren't exactly sure how to cope with them, do not worry. This is a very normal process that everyone must go through in their life.
As you continue to grow each and everyday, so do your feelings. Change in general is a very hard thing to cope with.
Experiencing Intense Dreams?
If you have started having strange and indescribable dreams as of lately, this is just your subconscious soaking up all the change that has happened in your life. Your mind has a funny way of projecting the way you feel in your dreams and how you would normally try to handle a situation.
Do not worry about these strange dreams, they will go away the more comfortable you become with the sudden new way of living.
Wish Things Were The Same?
If you still wish that things were still the same, this is also more than normal. Longing for the same comfortable feelings you had once before, this change can seem like the end of days.
This is not the case and as much as you wish to go back in time, you are still going to have to learn how to cope with this same unfamiliar feelings. Take things in strides, one at a time, slowly, and you will realize that this change may not be so bad after all!
Scared Of The Future?
The future is very far away from you even in this moment of time of your life. You may think the future is something that holds way too much change, but what you should be worrying about is what's happening in the present moment.
Do not look so far ahead that you do not want to see what the future even looks like. Let yourself be present, be one with the day you are in now, find the things you love to do, change will come in it's own sweet time so you don't even have to worry about the future. Take the time to just "be".
Intense Sorrow?
Perhaps the change in your life was a major loss that you are trying to get over. Feeling an intense wave of sorrow can certainly lower your overall mood, motivation, and pretty much everything else. It is okay to wallow after something drastic has happened. Just do not let yourself become consumed with despair and eventually become depressed.
Even with this sad change in your life, you must keep moving forward for yourself, your loved ones, and for those who are no longer with you. Be that light you wish to see.
Questioning Your Friendships?
If you have begun to question your friendships, you must stop thinking this way. Thinking that you are not able to continue with your personal relationships because something has changed in your life may be a little reckless depending on what it is.
Really consider the consequences before you burn any bridges at all. You may never get to see those people ever again after you've cut those ties.
Feeling Confrontational?
Perhaps the new change in your life is making you a lot more confrontational about the things in your life. This is more than okay to feel this way.
If you were really shy before this change and feel the need to make yourself known to those around you more often, then continue to be this way! Being honest, confrontational, and brave gives people the idea that you are ready for this change and that you are not scared of what happens next!
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